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Men's Sexual Health: Rapid or Delayed Ejaculation

Rapid or Delayed Ejaculation Introduction:
Ejaculation is a response to physical and mental sexual stimulation. During arousal, seminal fluids accumulate or build up (the emission phase). Ejaculation happens when the seminal fluids are pushed out of the penis. Difficulties with ejaculation range from rapid or premature ejaculation (before the man wishes to ejaculate) to delayed or inhibited ejaculation where a man may not be able to ejaculate at all. This can be due to a wide range of factors, including, but not limited to, spinal cord injury and medication side effects. This channel includes information about ways of managing these and other ejaculation issues.

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  • I am now married for a year and a half. I thought that this problem would resolve with time, but has not. My husband is not able to orgasm or ejaculate while he is in me. The only way that he can, ....
  • I am 19 years old almost 20, im overcoming alcoholism, i also smoke, i smoke mostly on weekends i recently had a checkup about my smoking and came out with "Good results" as im a regular walker and ....
  • hi doc, my problem is that i feel wet once i touch my wife and specifically after my penis wake up in one min.Also the first intercourse i ejaculate very fast and i continue in the penetration process ....
  • hello i am 16 and i have had a problem recently i have been masterbating 3-4 times a week recently since i was around 12 and between the ages of 12-14 i probably did it more then 3-4 times a week, and ....
  • Hey, i am almost 14, with no armit hair and a little hair on my legs. I have tried a lot (fast, slow, lubricant but I havent been able to cum or have any kind of orgasm or ejaculation. I can feel wher ....
  • i am 19 and about 3 years ago i got hit with my testis and it swelled. but later it got better. but ever since i have sex i can't last long. is there anything i can do
  • Well, it all started a couple of years ago.My husband and i sarted daing 12/17/00 and we pretty much had sex regularly but when he got his own apartment ,is when it all started.it is now 5 years later ....
  • i am a 14 year old male who has been masturbating for 3 years. I was wondering if masturbating affects you in the long run? also, is it normal to have a brown line across the shaft area of my penis. a ....
  • Hi. I'm a 27 year old male, married for 3 years. We have been trying to get pregnant for the past 4 or so months. The last time, during our last sexual encounter, I was unable to sustain an erectio ....
  • Hey, I am 33 and my husband is 42. We have great sex but doesn't seem to last more than maybe 3-5 minutes, I was just wondering if this is normal in a man his age? I love the whole 3-5 minutes,he is u ....
  • hi, im 28 years old, virgin and im having this problem when im having sexual intercourse with my gf and before her with some other girls. the thing i can get her all excited but i cant cum not even wi ....
  • I am 24 and am sexually active with a 39 year old male. 2 yrs ago he had cancer and Dr.s went in a removed the cancer from his scrotum. Obviously there was concern on wether he was going to be able ....
  • I recently began dating a wonderful woman, and we have had sex several times. I have used a condom, and while I can maintain an erection pretty well, I cannot feel enough through the latex to ejaculat ....
  • hi i have a friend named chris, ho happens to be gay, (no big deal, were great friend still)and reciently he has been complaining to me about some pain in his testicles. heres the actuall conversatio ....
  • hey im 20 yrs old and just got back in the dating game. i took about 1 1/2 off due to a previous 2 yr relationship. now i've found someone else and we went to have intercourse the other day and i co ....
  • hi, i am a 24 yr old male. i seem to have uncontrolled ejaculations in my sleep. its very embarrassing. i also suffer from P.E. Any advice on how to avoid these early morning wet spots? thank ....
  • I'm indian, 26yrs married male, i have masterbate since last 2 yrs (twice in week), i dont have any other bad habits, my question is when i intercourse with my wife my pennis will be ejaculate the cum ....
  • Respected sir, When I sexually exited then never erectile my penis but it be tight and just being start saliva sweated and when I enter my penis into vegina then quickly fall,then next desire havn't ....
  • Rapid ejaculation (premature),I ejaculate very early. Unfortunately,I came to know about sex during my early childhood days. I was not knowing true and detail info about it,but could understand that w ....
  • QUESTION: HI. I AM 21 YEARS OLD, MY PROBLEM IS THAT I WAS AND AND ALWAYS WERE A PREMATURE EJACULTOR EVEN I MASTURBATE REGULARLY OR I DO IT TOO FREQUENT. AS THIS P.E ALWAYS BEEN A PROBLEM FOR ME I EJA ....
  • My fiance has delayed ejaculation. We could have sexual relations for 1/2 hour and he still has to masturbate to ejaculate. He usually masturbates a good 5 minutes until he is able. I am concerned ....
  • I'm 79 y/o. I still very much love sex. But I have trouble ejackulating. The only way is to masterbate for a very long time. I don't cum as much either. Is there anything that I can do?
  • I ejaculate very fast in some 10 to 15 secs and can not masturbate with a constant pace moving my shaft up and down as doing so results in quick release. Thanks
  • I am suffering from rapid ejaculation, i m not in a relationship but i ejaculate in a few seconds as when i start masturbation as soon as the first drop of premcum comes out of my penis i had a feelin ....
  • My question is that I always ejaculate whenever i masturbate, i have never been in a relationship. Whenever i begin masturbation as soon as the first drop of precum start to come out of my penis i hav ....
  • I have serveral question. I get ejaculation very fast. I think i am sex addictive. Even in my dream i ejaculate. When i am with my girl friend, if my girl do oral sex with my penis hard ;especially th ....
  • i have serveral question. I get ejaculation very fast. I think i am sex addictive. Even in my dream i ejaculate. When i am with my girl friend, if my girl do oral sex with my penis hard ;especiall ....
  • hello Dr,

    My problem is that i use to masturbate too often 4 to 6 times a week on every day or with a day gap in between in each ejaculation. I have read in your archieves that the more often a ....

  • i USUALLY SEX WITH MY WIFE BUT I SEE I INTERCOURSE WITH HER 3 TIMES COUNTINOUSLY BUT WHEN I DOING INTERCOURSE I INJECT MATERIAL WITH IN 1 1/2 MINUTES SO PLZ TELL ME IF I AM NORMAL THEN TELL ME AND IF ....
  • I am experiencing rapid or premature ejaculation ? Whenever I am with my partner wanting to have sex my I can't control my ejaculation. In fact when I have tried to do penetration it hardly stays for ....
  • Lately (2 weeks) my girlfriend and i have been having sex and i am only able to last a couple of minutes (two at most) then i come. it is upseting both of us. I have never incounted this before.
  • I fear that I have a low sex drive. my girlfriend reminds me that its not normal for a man to want sex only once a week or once every two weeks.is there some kind of an all natural supplement thet wil ....
  • I am married a am suffering from quick sexual disharge i abt 30 seconds.
  • i am suffering from premature ejaculation..have tried the excercises that people claim but no use..is there any homeopathic medicne for it...i need a cure quick..
  • I have been masturbating since i reached puberty and now i am 20 ,now i have a habit to watch more and more pornography and masturbate more often than i used to do before and now sometimes i reached o ....
  • Pre mature Ejaculation & non hardning of Penis?
  • I'm age 30 and recently becomng sexually active with my partner (age 37), she has admitted to "not feeling me inside of her during intercourse all the time." I know serveral things that may play into ....
  • Dear Dr: I am an 18 year old male and recently me and my girlfriend of 6 months began having sex. I can attain an erection and give my girlfriend an orgasm, but for some reason i cant achieve orgasm. ....
  • hello i am 17 years old. me and my gurl friend of one year have had sex about 5 times and everytime i either cannot keep and erection or i lose stimulation or i have a hard time ejaculating why is tha ....
  • My boyfriend and i have only been together for a short time, but we are very intensly in love with eachother. However, he finds it impossible to ejaculate during sex. i am his third partner and this i ....
  • Failure to ejaculate.
  • My boyfriend is 23 and he has a problem with keeping an erection. He told me that is first sexual experience was good, however, every time after that he has a problem maintaining. Once intercourse has ....
  • When me and my boyfriend have sex he come very fast he usually last lest than a minute.
  • premature ejaculation
  • Dear Doctor, I would be very much grateful to you for answering my question. In fact my love life depends on your answer. Please Kindly answer me. Thank you.

    My problem is I am having a relati ....

  • Doctor,

    My girlfriend and I have begun to fantasies with one another where she's an asian sex goddess who likes to suck dick and I'm like John Wayne, coming to rescue her out an Ole' West brothe ....

  • I was just wondering if it is possible for a man to ejaculate without having an orgasm (and vice versa). The terms "orgasm" and "ejaculation" seem to be used interchangeably for men so i'm a little c ....
  • I am 20 years old and for the last 2/3 years I very rarely orgasm when masturbating or having sex, when having sex I also take a very long time to ejaculate and sometimes lose my erections. I am compl ....
  • My wife and I have been married for 9 weeks. She is 20 and I am 22. I have masturbated for as long as I can remember, but she was the first person I have had sex with. I was not her first. We had grea ....
  • My first question is can I use some kind of local anesthesia (delay spray) to prevent premature ejaculation?? is this harm full or not. If it is, then what else should I do??. What about viagra and ot ....
  • I am a 50 plus male with hypertension on the following medication: Diovan, Paxil, Neurontin and Cylert. I have no sensation at ejaculation and seminal fluid appears thick and the consistency of mucou ....
  • I was wondering would guy who is circumsized last longer in bed than a guy who is not circumsized since the circumsized guy's penis head is not as sensitive?
  • I was wondering would guy who is circumsized last longer in bed than a guy who is not circumsized since the circumsized guy's head is not as sensitive?
  • Hi, I'm a 19-year-old male who's never had a serious girlfriend until a week ago. We're both devoted virgins. But here's the problem. After spending long periods of time together (whether kissing o ....
  • I just started having sex with my GF, and the first time lasted forever, but since then it went from a few minutes, to basically right when we started. I tried being on top for the first time and just ....
  • A problem which you must have come across so many times. To start with I have severe premature ejaculation problem. When I start feeling or when a girl starts feeling me I ejaculate within seconds in ....
  • I want to know that how much you can lose with excessive masturbation. i m 26 and i have done this for last thirteen years almost twice a day but now i have left this for about last six months. now te ....
  • I have done masterbation excessively. i want to know that can i be a father or not. how could i know this because i m not married. what test should i have to know this. also that rapid ejaculation, in ....
  • A problem which you must have come across so many times. To start with I have severe premature ejaculation problem. When I start feeling or when a girl starts feeling me I ejaculate within seconds in ....
  • After being in a fairly long-term relationship, I split up with my girlfriend for being unfaithful. We had a very active and incredible sexlife which has continued periodically after we broke up. ....
  • I have been sexually active for a few years, and right from the beginning i have been ejaculating very quickly, some times after only a few seconds. My girlfriends made the commit that I may be comin ....
  • I am 27 years old woman and have been seeing a man of 23 years old. I have noticed that he takes a very long time to ejaculate (1 to 1½ hours), and last time we had intercourse which was our third tim ....
  • I am facing the problem of early ejaculation. I am not able to keep it even for a minute.This is giving lots of problem to out family life. Tell me how can i over come this. And give me good therapi ....
  • I am a 21 year old male and while making out with my girlfriend I can not control myself and I cum. It is really hard to control, and is very embarassing. How can I stop this? We are not sexually acti ....
  • I have 2 sexual partners. With one I ejaculate after about 10 thrusts which I thinkis not very satisfying for that partner. With the other partner I can stay erect and have sex for hours at a time. ....
  • Our 15 year old son told my husband and me that in the past few days when he has masterbated, he has reached an orgasm but has not ejaculated; nothing came out of his penis. He was not trying to do t ....
  • I am a 20 year old male in excellent shape, and i have never really had trouble ejaculating when it comes to intercourse, masturbation, or oral. until last night that is. over the past two days my gir ....
  • ON MOST OCCASIONS BEFORE EVEN THE PENIS IS INSERTED INTO THE VAGINA EJACULATI0ON OCCURS WHICH IS VERY FRUSTRATING FOR ME AND VERY IRRITATING FOR MY WIFE. THE ERECTION OF PENIS IS ALWAYS NOT HARD WH ....
  • Hi Dr. Birch, I am 23 years old, fairly healthy: I lift weights three times a week, eat well, drink lots of water (my only bad habit is smoking 10 cigarettes per day) I am concerned because I feel li ....
  • I am 17 and I have never ejaculated. Never in a wet dream, never through masturbation, never with a girl. I can get erections with no problem. Is there something wrong with me?
  • I am 26 years of age, male and from India. I have had my first sexual encounter at the age of 20. I had sex with my girl friend and I found that I ejaculate very quickly. The thing which worries me th ....
  • I have never ejaculated during sex and when i try to masturbate the normal way I cannot ejaculate however when I masturbate my way I can ejaculate but I hate the way I have to do it to ejaculate .
  • Hi. I wrote to you a while back concerning my boyfriend not being able to ejaculate in front of me or whenever we are together. He can still get an erection and we have wonderful sex but he still can ....
  • I am a 21 year old female currently seeing a 20 year old male. i have a problem with him ejaculating about 5 mins or so after we start to have sex. i want to know is that normal? and, what can we do t ....
  • My husband and I have been together sexually for about 13-14 years. We have never had any problems at all, and try new things all the time. I was quite sick for a while, and he wasn't getting sex as ....
  • hello, I ask about sexual behaviour in patient who suffer from RAPIED EJACULATION
  • I am 35 and have been dating a man who 10 years older, we recently had sex for the first time, and he did not ejaculate. He used a condom, but it came off during intercourse and unfortunately remaine ....
  • If i feel like have problem clear out the urine after urination, does it related to rapid ejaculation? Also the last time i ejaculate there is only very little semen came out and it doesnt really sho ....
  • My Boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, he's 28. when we would have sex his erection would last between 20 to some times 40 min. Now it only last for 3-5 min while engaging in sex. His he p ....
  • Does rapid ejaculation has something to do with too much masturbating?
  • I have delaye ejaculation problems. What is wrong with me? Is there any medication or diet?
  • When I have sexual intercourse for the first time in a week, I always ejaculate within a minute or two. Is this normal? When I recover from the first time, I proceed to have sexual intercourse again a ....
  • I've never found sex that stimulating. I go for hours and get tired without climaxing. The only way I can climax is it I masturbate and then I can climax with my girlfriend. I'm young and active, ....
  • I've never found sex that stimulating. I go for hours and get tired without climaxing. The only way I can climax is it I masturbate and then I can climax with my girlfriend. I'm young and active, ....
  • I'm only 47, but I'm finding my sexual life changing. Not necessarily for the better. Erections that came on their own must now be brought about by direct stimulation. Visual aids don't help. ....
  • Dr. Birch, I went to try to get help for PE fron The Boston Medical Group. This is a company that has MD's specializing in men's health. They tested my blood flow to my penis and some other tests. Eve ....
  • I am 31 year old, married and have two children aged 1 & 6 yrs.The problem is because of premature ejaculation I have never been able to enjoy sex with my wife and this has become a matter of discord ....
  • I am 16 years old, and I have a question about how much semen a male my age is supposed to produce when ejaculating, and what it is supposed to look like. I have heard it is supposed to be a milky whi ....
  • Dr Birch, My Problem is regarding oral sex with my boyfriend. He is unable to come to orgasim through oral sex. He has never recieved oral sex from any of his previous sex partners before me. He s ....
  • my partner has not been able to ejaculate for nearly two years, since he started take antipsychotic drugs, is there anything that can be done to help?
  • I'm 24 years of age and I've been masturbating for about 10 years from now. I used to have better ejaculation for all these years but recently it has taken a huge fall. Since last two weeks I'm hardly ....
  • HI, I'M A 23 YEAR OLD MALE ..MY PROBLEM IS THAT WHEN I HAVE SEX WITH MY PARTNER IT BECOMES DIFFICULT FOR ME TO EYACULATE , SPECIALLY INTRA VAGINA EYACULATION???
  • Hi, this question concerns something that has bothered me for a little while. My girlfriend and I have been having sex and when I penetrate she is very tight and I end up ejaculating very soon. I wo ....
  • i would like to ask i have been unable to keep an erection for over a yr now but i still have a high sex drive and i get pleasure with my girlfriend but the minuite i have sexual intercourse i cant ke ....
  • Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for more than a year now, but i cant seem to build my sexual endurance. I can recall a couple of times when we had sex in a rush, like a quickie, and my endu ....
  • Hello Dr. Birch. I am a 50 year old woman. I have been married and have 2 grown children. I am now with a man 15 years older than myself. I rarely, if ever, have had an orgasm. On top of this, my ....
  • I'm a healthy 22 year old that exercises regularly and has a healthy diet. I haven't been sexually active until recently, but now that I am, I have a problem ejaculating.
  • Dear Dr. Birch I am a 39 year old male who has been with the same women for 21 years. She is very sexual. My problem is that I still ejaculate within 1 to 3 minutes(and thats not continous thrustin ....
  • I'm not sure my boyfriend is ejaculating every time we have sex. We usually have sex for a couple of hours but at the end sometimes I think he fakes orgasm. How can I tell if he is having an orgasm or ....
  • I am trying to find out a way to get ahold of an instructional video on masterbation for a Male, mentally challenged person who is 35. He bounces on the floor to get the sensation, but cannot finish ....
  • I'm clueless when it comes to this stuff, but i've been told that after ejaculation the penis usually goes limp again. When masturbating, i'll ejaculate after 5 minutes on average, but then I can keep ....
  • i lost my virginity about four years ago. The first few times i had sex i didn`t climax, once i found my sexual feelings i began to suffer from premature ejaculation and have done so now ever since my ....
  • I am married since 1986, but my husband always abroad he stay with me about one month yearly, he wants to do love evryday and if he can twice daily, we loved each other, but he always tell me that I a ....
  • 1)Is mansturbation really healthy or not? If it is, does it help improve sex intercourse. 2)When I am having sex with my girlfriend, I get tired before I ejaculate or even before I lose erection (MOS ....
  • My boyfriend is 42 years old, and untill the past year he's been in very good shape and health. I've noticed lately when we have sex, he doesn't get completely "hard", and most of the time doesn't eja ....
  • This is really a general question: Isn't rapid ejaculation somewhat overrated, much like a 10" penis and other "urban legends?" It seems to me from my limited observation that ejaculation throughout t ....
  • I am a 35 year old male, I cannot ejaculate when I have sex with my new lover, but I can ejaculate when I masterbate.
  • I am 23 years old and have been married for three years. My husband has no problem orgasming during sex, but he can not orgasm during oral sex. I know that it isn't me! I thought maybe it could be a ....
  • hi. I was wondering is it normal for a teenager to ejaculate once bi- weekly,because of intense sexual desire without masturbation
  • im ejaculate to quick. i can be called 3 min man. so i neeed your help anything u can do? any workout that i can do?
  • Hey i've been having problems latey. I have rapid ejaculation( i cum to fast) and this is bad because my sex life suxs and my girl is not liking it so can u help thanks
  • Hi I am From India. I have been masturbating for past 15 years. Sometimes it used to be 10 times in a day. Now the problem is that i dont get orgasm when i masturbate. I am too shy to contact a docto ....
  • I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL FOR A COUPLE MONTHS AND WHEN WE HAVE SEX I CAN ONLY SEEM TO LAST FOR A MIINUTE OR SO. IS THERE ANY THING THAT I CAN DO TO PROLONG EJACULATION. I HAVE NEVER ....
  • I am 22 yrs old and i hav been masturbating for the almost last five years and for the last 3 to 4 yrs i am facing two very serious problems .1)premature ejaculation(the period of masturbation is very ....
  • What hormones are directly involved in orgasm and ejaculation? Could one be normally formed sexually, but have a hormone deficiency that prevented orgasm? Are their hormones involved in genital sensit ....
  • i have rapid ejaculation since ten years in addation ihave some congenital abnormalities as well such as glandular hypospadiasis without chordee and i think ihad spinabifida too becase there is sti ....
  • I am a physically fit 21 year old Caucasian. I have never orgasmed in my whole life, I also have never ejaculated (through masterbation or by stimulation by another) but I do have wet dreams every s ....
  • I am having a sexual relationship with a 33 year old female and I seem to have premature ejaculation after intercourse. I have been diagonosed with nonverbal learning disability or asperger's syndr ....
  • I am a t3/4 complete paraplegic male resulting from a MVA 12 years ago. I have discovered just recently with the use of Viagra and a persistence lady friend that I could ejaculate. This was a little p ....
  • Dear Mitch,
    I'm 31, reasonably fit, with no illness/disability or medication. I'm a non smoker and very light drinker. I suffer from taking too long to orgasm with a partner.

    My first sexua ....

  • Dear Dr. Birch, My boyfriend takes forever to ejaculate, if at all. He does not have a problem ejaculating with oral sex and I suspect that there is not enough "friction" during regular intercourse ....
  • My husband and I have been married 28 years. I love my husband and enjoy and anticipate sex with him. However, I am very frustrated over his premature ejaculation. I want to be patient and supporti ....
  • What could cause me to be unable to climax and ejaculate after prolonged intercourse? This all started about six months ago.
  • My question is about premature ejaculation, I cant last very long sexually, and wanted to know if there was something I could do to change that.
  • 1. My erection doesn't last long. This is killing the excitement and joy of sex and being togetther. 2. I ejaculate prematurely, too fast, may be in 5 to six strokes after foreplay ! Bad, both of u ....
  • My husband has been seeing a psychiatrist for depression since April of last year. He is taking Amitriptyline, which has caused him to have trouble ejaculating. It's turned into almost an obsession th ....
  • My 30-year-old husband hasn’t been much interested in sex for the past two weeks. We had intercourse three days ago and everything was fine, but he has not been able to ejaculate since then either wi ....
  • My husband and I have had a fine sex life since we have been together. However, lately he has not been able to reach orgasm. He can become erect and stay that way, but he says he doesn't feel anythi ....
  • Dear Doctor, I'm 25 Year Old Indian working in Saudi Arabia for the last five years. my problems are as follows. 1. My Penis is hardly 4 inches long. 2. I have a problem of premature ejaculatio ....
  • I was wondering how often a normal, healthy male in his 30's could achieve an orgasm. I love sex with my wife, but some times she can go for more sex,and I'm able to get an erectoin but unable to hav ....
  • I HAVE RAPID PREMATURE EJACULATION AND WAS WONDERING IF MY VASECTOMY HAD ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT? I HAVE NEVER HAD THIS PROBLEM UNTIL A YEAR AND A HALF AGO.
  • hello, lately i have been having more trouble ejaculating during during masturbation as well as intercourse. i have no problem getting an erection and keeping it, until i am trying to have an orga ....
  • I was wondering how often a normal, healthy male in his fifty's could achieve an orgasm. My husband can usually achieve an erection, but lately he is not always reaching orgasm.
  • I was just wondering if you could tel ma a technique or two that would help me last longer in bed. I heard that one method (masturbate until just prior to ejaculation then stop, and repeat one or two ....
  • I was wondering why I am ejaculating so early because when a girl gives me oral sex I have never ejaculated but ever time i have sex I ejaculate in 2 minutes. So I would appreciate it if you w ....
  • I need your advice, can you help me and give your advice about sex, because my wife is not satisfy with me. I am married, 1 year before. anybody can help me, where should I get sex specialist? she wan ....
  • I need your advice, can you help me and give your advice about sex, because my wife is not satisfy with me. I am married, 1 year before. anybody can help me, where should I get sex specialist? she wan ....
  • I need your advice, can you help me and give your advice about sex, because my wife is not satisfy with me. I am married, 1 year before. anybody can help me, where should I get sex specialist? she wan ....
  • I need your advice, can you help me and give your advice about sex, because my wife is not satisfy with me. I am married, 1 year before. anybody can help me, where should I get sex specialist? she wan ....
  • I ejaculates before entering a women, I feel ashamed that I can not perform. please help me to solve this problem.
  • i thought ejaculation was a spinal reflex, when i have sex, it feels great but i dont orgasm or ejaculate, how can this be?
  • Good day, I am writing to find some sort of answer which in some aspects makes me feel inadequate when it comes to my partner. For quite sometime now I seem to ejaculate quite rapidly through inter ....
  • I've noticed that I can bring myself to an orgasim pretty quickly during masturbation but am unable to perform with my partner. I know it's in my head and after doing some reading I think I have a per ....
  • Can Zoloft help stop premature ejaculation? If yes, how long will it take to work and are there any harmful side effects?
  • I ejaculate even before the penetration, In fact I ejaculate even when I kiss a girl for 2-3 minutes, how can i solve it?
  • My boyfriend is unable to ejaculate from having sex. He says that he can ejaculate from masturbation. He suffered a head injury 5 years ago, but he says that for the first year afterward, he had no ....
  • My husband has recently had difficulty ejaculating. Over the past two weeks he has had less interest in masturbation and intercourse. When we had intercourse he was able to ejaculate, but has not been ....
  • I HAVE HAD THIS PROBLEM MOST OF MY ADULT LIFE, WHAT ARE THE MAIN CAUSES OF RETARDED EJACULATION, AND WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT IT?
  • Hi, my problem is premature ejaculation. If I am masturbating, or with someone, I ejaculate prematurely, even though I try not to. After that happens, the erection goes down too. Are there any suggest ....
  • I am 35 and seeing a man 55yrs. old. I'm just wondering about male sexuality at that age.What can you tell me.
  • I am a 64 year old male in very good physical condition. Frequency of sex is 3-4 times weekly, lasting from 30 to 60 minutes. Three or four times with ejaculation and then nothing for 3-4 or maybe eve ....
  • I ejaculate during intercourse, but not when materbating. How can I produce an organsim during masterbation? Would you recommend a sex therapist?
  • My boyfriend and I have wonderful sex together, but he takes forever to come, and sometimes he doesn't come at all. When I ask him if he's happy, and/or if he satisfied, he replies with an emph ....
  • During intercourse, I find it almost impossible to reach orgasm without actually doing it myself. I've been with my partner for almost a year now, and we've tried just about everything, but still sex ....
  • What could cause a man to be unable to either climax or ejaculate after prolonged intercourse? This is a fairly recent (last 6 mos) problem.
  • I FIND IT TAKES ME AGES TO EJACULATE DURING SEX. I HAVE NEVER EJACULATED FROM ORAL SEX AND I WANT TO, SO DOES MY GIRLFRIEND! HOW CAN I MAKE MYSELF CUM QUICKER?
  • I had an hernia operation when I was 12. When I recovered, I wanted to take a shower and sa that I have only one testicle left. This was like a shock for me, I never asked my mother why do I had only ....
  • My husband & I have been married 13 years. Sex has always been very good. But, this last year he comes very quickly. He has an enlarged prostate, can this have anything to do with iT?He always feels v ....
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  • I don't know how to word this so I will give it my best shot. I, like most men, enjoy sex. But during sex I don't enjoy sex. I never ....
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