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Kathleen VanKirk has answered 41 questions.

  • Throughout my life, I have still to experience an orgasm. I ejaculate and I have no problems with my erection. Its really frustrating to experience arousal but just ending in a "pop" and then a fee

  • I have been married for 10 years and in the last 4 years or so I will find myself attempting to have sex with my wife in the middle of our sleeping. Usually 2-4 in the morning. Most times I don't re

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    My husband and I are newly married and he was recently sent to the Middle East with a deployment by the Armed Forces. How can we keep the home-fires burning sexually while he's awa

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I'm in a new relationship and things are absolutely great between my boyfriend and me. We're really compatible in all areas of our life except sex. There just seems to be no sexua

  • My husband and I have been together several years and the sex has always been good but recently I've been curious about incorporating a vibrator into our lovemaking. How do I get him interested in

  • I've been with my girlfriend about six months now. There have been a couple of times when we've had sex (I'm penetrating her from the back), she orgasms, and fluid comes out of her. And not just a

  • I'm a healthy, well-adjusted 40-year-old woman who loves sex. I have no interest in getting married or of even getting in a long-term relationship. I like that I can have sex when and with whom I w

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I've always considered myself a woman with a very active fantasy life. I've fantasized about sex since I was a teenager but never shared them with anyone - including my partners

  • My husband and I are getting prepared to have a lot of family over for the holidays. The problem is that we're concerned that having family stay with us will affect our sex life negatively. With m

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    The only sex toy we ever had was a vibrator I bought for myself about 10 years ago. It just died and now I'd like a new one. But I'd really love to share this aspect of my sexua

  • I've been with my boyfriend a couple of years and he just told me that his first sexual experiences were with other boys when he was young teenager. What I find so disturbing is that it wasn't just

  • My boyfriend has an extremely small but versatile penis. However, I'm not able to get fully satisfied because it is so small. Should I ask him to get an extension using plastic surgery?

  • My girlfriend wants to use a strap-on about ten inches big so she can show me how it feels to be penetrated -- she thinks I will like it. I've never done anything like this before but it does interest

  • My boyfriend of six years is a wonderful and very buff lover. His penis is average size and it pleases me very much. We are nudists, and it is at this time he wishes he had more to "show". I mean th

  • I'm 19 years old and have never been able to have penetrative sex with my boyfriend. Every time I've tried vaginally I just lock up. It actually becomes painful to insert anything. For the same reason

  • I just got diagnosed with HPV (genital warts) with a pap smear. I've been dating my boyfriend for six months and don't know how to tell him. Also, I'm wondering if I got it from him possibly cheating

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I'm in a happy marriage of fifteen years and couldn't love my husband more. However, I have been having a secret affair for the past year with another man. Although, my husband and

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I'm a 26-year-old female who has never been able to have an orgasm when I wanted to. If I do orgasm it seems to happen almost by accident. I'm not currently in a relationship but I

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I'm 19 and in my second year of college away from home. I had only dated boys until this past year. Since then, I have had several sexual experiences with a wonderful woman I met a

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I got married three years ago and since the birth of my first child I have added 50 lbs to my 125-pound frame. It has affected my sex life by my not feeling sexy and although my hu

  • My wife and I have been involved in the "swinger" scene for some time now. It's been a wonderful way to express our sexuality as a couple over the years. However, I've sensed she has had more than a f

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I'm a 35-year-old married woman in a ten-year relationship. It's gotten to the point where is seems like I'm having the same sex all the time. My husband says he is up for trying s

  • My wife & I have been sexually active for many years. She is 65 and I am 66. She now is in the advanced stage of M.S. which has left her a quadriplegic and without any feeling in the sexual organs.

  • I have a question about my boyfriend. We have sex often -- and good sex. But what I can't figure out about him is that he jerks off while he's sleeping. He doesn't cum. He doesn't realize he is even d

  • If a guy masturbates and comes on his hands and then fingers a girl could she become pregnant? Is this the same for pre-come?

  • I'm a 22 year old, healthy, intelligent college student who is ashamed of her sexual past. I'm disappointed and scared that I've had sex with 14 people and only two of them were boyfriends and four wi

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I'm six weeks pregnant and I'm pretty sure I want to have an abortion. I'm concerned because I'm afraid to tell my boyfriend. A couple of other friends know but my family doesn't -

  • I met this guy online in October and in about a week we decided to see each other in person. When I saw him in person I was shocked, he did not look what I expected him to look like. He sent me some

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I want to use lube but my husband doesn't believe in it. Getting wet never used to be a problem but now in my early forties I don't seem to lubricate as much. I've tried to bring i

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I am a twenty-eight year old single man. I experience extreme sensitivity of the head of my penis when I masturbate. I also get an achy feeling in my left testicle and I've noticed

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    "I'm four months pregnant and I'm scared to have sex. Will it hurt my baby?"

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    "My fiancé and I will be virgins on our wedding night (he's 21 and I'm 19). How can we prepare to have a good sexual experience?"

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    "What's up with all of the female arousal creams I hear about? Do they work?"

  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I feel I have a small penis and want to have sex but I think the girl will laugh at me. I wonder if you could tell me the average size of a 16 year old's penis and give me advice o

  • Dear Dr. Kat: I am a 17 year old male. I have an uncircumcized penis but it has little bumps on it. I haven't had sex, and havent recieved or given oral sex. So I ruled out an STD. they have been

  • Dear Dr. Kat, Would you be so kind please to consult me on the following problem. I have never experienced an orgasm during penetration without me doing clitoral stimulation myself. I have a ve

  • hi kat, i have been with my gf for 7 months now and i wanna know how i can give her a orgams? she keeps asking me why dont i give her one but how can i knwo she wont tell me how i give her or how she

  • I have heard that eating chicken makes your penis bigger is this true?

  • can you get pregnant from masterbation

  • I have performed cunnilingus twice on my girlfriend, each time for the better part of an hour. I am new at this but seem to be enjoying it. My girlfriend is 22 and tells me she is a virgin. I don't

  • Dear Dr. Kat, Recently I have bought a penis ring. It's designed to stimulate woman with "pearls" around the ring. It doesn't strenghten erection, but it does squeeze the penis a bit so even after ej

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