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Question:
I am desperately seeking advice on low testosterone. I gave birth 18 months ago I have lost my sex drive completely My gyn ignored me when I mentioned testosterone. He sent me to my family doc. for tests. Everything came back fine. My husband and I went to a counselor. She suggested I go for a pschy medication evaluation. I did that now I am on wellbutrin. It's done absolutely nothing. I know my husband can't take this anymore. I don't want this to ruin our marriage. Everything else in our marriage is fine. It's just I have no feelings of sex towards him. Not even a male stripper would turn me on. It feels as though that when I had my daughter the doctors took something else from me. PLEASE HELP ME.

Answer:
by :
(07/20/2004)
Many women find that having a child dramatically changes all aspects of their lives. With a child there are many more responsibilities that you take on and unfortunatley sexual relationships are often the first suffer. The steps that you have taken so far are all in the right direction. If your medical doctors have ruled out any underlying physiological conditions, including checking total and free testosterone and sex hormone binding globulin (SHBG), and counseling did not prove successful the next natural step would be to visit a mental health professional. Loss of sexual desire is something that is commonly associated with depression. The Wellbutrin that you are taking is an antidepressant that is structurally and chemically unrelated to other commonly prescribed antidepressants such as Prozac, Paxil or Zoloft. Many antidepressant drugs can also reduce sexual desires and orgasmic capabilities. However, Wellbutrin usually is not associated with as many sexual side effects as the other antidepressants are. You may find that if you and your partner are able to get away for a few days together with out any responsibilities or child care duties that your desire for sex may return. Also trying new things and being openly able to communicate with your partner are also vital for maintaining a healthy sexual relationship.

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