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Question:
I am in my early 30's and I started to find sexual pleasure in areas other than normal heterosexual relationships. I discovered ways to masturbate and achieve female orgasm, that is, my penis stays erected, but will never ejaculate, and my breaths and moaning intensify.

I never experienced this in my 20's. Although I still enjoy normal heterosexual intercourse, I discover lots of pleasure in homosexual intercourse as well (with me being the female part).

So, am I classified as bi-sexual? And why my sexual orientation changes as I age? And what will I be when I get into my 40's and 50's?


Answer:
by Blaise Parker:
(06/28/2004)
Hi, before I answer your question, can I get a little more information from you? I'm confused on a few points.

First, you say that you discovered a way to achieve a female orgasm. When you say that, do you mean that you are having orgasms like a woman might? You mean you are staying hard and not ejaculating, correct?

Second, have you completely stopped ejaculating altogether, or are you still able to ejaculate when you want to?

Third, you mentioned homosexual intercourse. Do you mean you are having anal sex with men, or oral, or both? When you say "with me being the female part" I assume you mean that you are on the bottom/the receptive partner?

I'm just confused as to who is involved, and if this is something you're doing with another or more than one other person.

THanks for the info!

Blaise

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