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Question:
I've been masturbating to pornography for years
I've noticed that when I meet a woman I like and
attempt to have intercourse with her that I loos
interest soon. As a result, I loose my erection
my partners have wondered if I was even attracted
to them. I think the problem is that I have masturbaed
to such raunchy images that I now need them to climax.
I find strait forward, generic sex with a partner I
like sort of dull. However, I must admit that these two partners
I am thinking of were women whose looks were the least
of the traits that attracted me, it was their brains
and their good hearts. At one point I wondered if
maybe I just wasn't attracted to them, but I know
of men who have had sex with women they thought
were very unattractive and climaxed easily. So,
I wonder why I am unable to complete sex with women
who I truly respect and, in some ways, love. I
don't just think it's the physical problem(because
I would have continued dating these women because
of how much I like them), I am suspecting that
the pornography is playing a major role. What is
opinion?
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Answer:
by Robert Birch: (06/09/2004)
It seems that you already know the answer to your question. If you have become "addicted" to masturbating to visual images, it will be difficult to respond with a real live partner (who is probably not quite a centerfold candidate). It is important that your find a professional who specializes in working with sexual compulsions/addictions.Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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