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Question:
dear who eva can help me, hi i'm and 16 year old male,i feel i have a small penis its 5-7 cm long but when i get a boner it like 10-15 cm long but i wanna show my gf my penis but when i do i think she will laugh at me when i do coz its so small,what can i do to make it bigger with out going under the knive help me please thanks you

Answer:
by Megan Andelloux:
(11/28/2005)
Darlin- Your penis is absolutely 100% not small. You are right smack dab in the middle of what most men's penis size is, both soft and hard. 5-7cm is normal for flaccid penis's and 10-15 cm is normal for erect penis's. I'm wondering who you are judging yourself against. Is it porn? Because if so, those guys take things that aren't healthy to make their penis appear larger. Porn, while fabulous and all, is meant to get you off, NOT teach you anything, especially of the ways our bodies are supposed to look like. You want to know what guys are supposed to look like? Pick up a copy of The Guide to Getting It On - one of the best sexuality books out there that will squash your fears about your penis size. Your girlfriend will not laugh at you and if she does, you should kick her to the curb. Who the heck laughs at someone when they take their clothes off?! Someone who is not worth your time. But really, my guess is that she is too caught up in her own body issues and is afraid you might laugh at HER to focus on your fabulously average size penis. When you do choose to take your clothes off, remember she's probably just as nervous as you and to be gentle with each other's feelings. Thanks for writing in and good luck! Megan Andelloux

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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