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I'm 16 years old and have been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months, and we are both still virgins. I believe I am suffering from an anxiety disorder surrounding a certain event. One night after a long day I was really tired and kind of pissed off, but instead of going to sleep, I went to her house and messed around. When it came time for her to go down on me, I started to worry that I wasn't hard enough and low and behold, when I started to worry, I lost my erection completely. Since then, I have had a fear of failure around her. This is really messing with my mind, but I think I can overcome the problem with a little help. Are there any methods I can use to increase confidence and not worry so much?? Thanks for your help!
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Answer:
by Rajendra Sathe: ()
Hey, don't get so worked up. The more you worry, the more is the problem going to stick to you. You are very young and I am sure that in time you will get over this problem. You mention that you masturbate and I presume you do get good erections then. This implies that there is nothing physically wrong with you. Don't be a spectator. Learn to enjoy and your problem will vanish. If you are still too bothered, talk to your regular doctor.Reviewed by: Scott Gross M. Ed.
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