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QUESTION: HI. I AM 21 YEARS OLD, MY PROBLEM IS THAT I WAS AND AND ALWAYS WERE A PREMATURE EJACULTOR EVEN I MASTURBATE REGULARLY OR I DO IT TOO FREQUENT. AS THIS P.E ALWAYS BEEN A PROBLEM FOR ME I EJACULATE FROM 30 SEC TO PROBABLY MINUTE, WHICH CAN'T BRING ME SATISFACTION AND I DO MASTURBATE SEVERAL TIMES A WEEK, EVERY DAY AND MOST OF THE TIMES ONE DAY AFTER EACH EJACULTION BUT I HAVE LOSS THE FEEL OF ORGASM THAT I USED TO HAVE WHEN I USUALLY WHEN I EJAC LESS FREQUENTLY. MY ELDER TWIN BROTHER USE TO MASTURBATE BY WATCHINNG PRN ON NET FOR HOURS AND DOES NOT EJACULATE AND ENJOY MAST WITHOUT HAVING AN EJACULTION BUT I CAN'T CONTRL IT EVEN FOR A MINUTE. I CAN RUB THE HEAD OF MY PENIS HEAD FOR MORE TIME BUT AS SOON I STIMULATE MY PENILE SHAFT UP AND DOWN I CAN NOT ABLE TO DO BECAUSE I CAN NOT BEAR A FEW SECS, ALTHOUGH SHAFT SENSITIVITY IS GONE BUT I ALWAYS EJACULATE IN THE SAME TIME WHEN IT WAS SENSTIVE TO TOUCH OR RUB . HOW CAN I REGAIN MY PENILE SHAFT SENSITVITY AND HOW COULD I UNDERSTAND STOP/START TECHNIQUE IN A BETTER WAY AS I CAN'T BEEN UNDERSTAND BY YOUR QUESTION PROVIDED? I CANT EVEN STIMULATE MY PENILE SHAFT CONSISTENTLY AND HAD TO STOP AFTER EACH 2-3 STROKE, HOW CAN I EASE UP THE SENSATIONS DURING MASTURBATION, I PROBABLY ORGASM IN SOME 6-7 STROKES OR LESS.

Answer:
by Konstance McCaffree: (05/27/2004)
I'm responding to your last comment which wasn't on the question I just answered for you.

When you masturbate frequently is changes the sensation so it may be that you are expecting too much. If you remember years ago when you first masturbated, the excited would have been very high and the feeling more explosive.

As we grow older the feelings change, and though they can be just as great, they may feel different. Masturbating frequently will feel different than letting several days go by. We masturbate for many reasons though, so it may not be a powerful orgasm that you need, but the sensation of getting aroused. That is what some want more than the release.

I hope some of this helps, combined with the message I just sent.

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Men's Sexual Health: Masturbation