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Question:
I work in a tbi home, I care for 4 clients. I have a young man, 29 yrs old who is bright , handsome, and very, very horney. I am having a hard time finding him a friend, or even a toy to help him be satisfied. I was wondering if there is somewhere, or anything anyone knows that would help this man. We live in southern part of wisconsin. If there are any resources available that I am not aware of, please let me know. thank you, Cindy

Answer:
by Megan Andelloux:
(08/28/2005)
Cindy- Great question and thanks for caring enough for this man that you want to allow him to experience a healthy outlet for his sexual desire while he is single. There are many places you can purchase male masturbation aids online and the one I would recommend would be the FLESHLIGHT. It's about 55.00 but the way men rave about it, it's a deal. It has been described to me as being a portable vagina. You should also order some lubricant to be used with the toy and I would recommend MAXIMUS (14.95). Maximus should be used by placing it on his penis before he slides his penis in the Fleshlight. If he wants, he can also use the Maximus by itself to enhance masturbation. Now, when you present these gifts to him, you should have a conversation about masturbation, how it is normal but a private behavior. Describe what private means so he does not use these items in inappropriate places. Also, explain how to clean the fleshlight (directions are inside) and how to use it. You can purchase both of these items on our site, just click on the section for shopping and then go to Men's Toys for the Fleshlight and for Maximus click on the lubricant section. Good luck and hope these items are a good fit for him!

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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