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Question:
Hey, i am almost 14, with no armit hair and a little hair on my legs. I have tried a lot (fast, slow, lubricant but I havent been able to cum or have any kind of orgasm or ejaculation. I can feel where its supposed to happen, these 4 or 5 sort of pumps by the penus but nothing comes out, not even a drop. Im definatly not going to ask my parents about this, and Im really scared that Im going to embarass females with nothing comming out of my penus. Is this something I should worry about?

Answer:
by Megan Andelloux:
(01/15/2006)
Don't you fret darling! You are not anorgasmic, it may be that your body is just not producing semen yet. You're (sorry to say this) still young and it's going to happen, but it could be 3-4 years from now. If you aren't ejaculating when you come 3 months from now, ask your parents to bring you to the doctor's cause you have a cold and talk to the doctor about what the real problem is. Ejaculation doesn't always happen right when you start puberty so just enjoy masturbation without having to clean anything up (no evidence!) in the meantime! Good luck and thanks for writing in! Megan Andelloux

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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