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Question:
My boyfriend and I just became sexually active with each other. When we have sex he is very excited and enjoys the sensations, but is unable to reach orgasm. Any thoughts on why?

Answer:
by :
(05/06/2004)
Many individuals will experience difficulty reaching orgasm from time to time. You do not mention if your boyfriend has ever had an orgasm in the past. This is important information when it comes to possible explanations for your current situation. In a new relationship stress, fear, and performance anxiety are common reasons why some people experience orgasmic difficulties. After partners become more comfortable with each other sexual problems often disappear. However, there are also many physical problems that can cause orgasmic difficulties. The use of certain medications such as antidepressants or antihypertensives or consumption of large quantities of alcohol are other common causes of orgasmic problems. If you feel like the problem is not stress or anxiety related you may what to have your boyfriend seek the advice a medical doctor to help rule out any physical problems.

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