My problem is I am having a relation with a married man. When we started this relation 7 months before his wife was pregnant so he could not have sex with his wife, however the base of the relation is not this fact. We are emotionally attached. Our relation was going well including the sex life.

Nevertheless after his wife gave birth to his child I found changes in him including in sexual behaviour. I feel he does not feel need to have sex with me. I guess it might be because he is having sex with her. But the real problem is and that is my question to you even when he makes love to me once a week he ejaculate very quickly after 2/3 minutes. I don't understand it. We have fight over this issue and every time he says he misses me a lot so whenever we get together his emotions get high and it comes immediately. He says he loves me a lot and he feels terrific while making love to me so because of his loving emotions towards me he could not hold it for long.

Is it true or is it possible for a man to ejaculate quickly (within 2/3 minutes) because he loves his partner a lot and he could not hold his emotions.

I feel like he is lying and cheating on me since now he has his wife to have sex but he totally denies and keeps on saying that it's because his love to me that he can't have longer sex. Please provide me the answer I am so confused. Thank you

Furthermore if he is really getting too excited and is 'burning' with desire when he is with you, he may ejaculate early. You are really the best judge to find that out.

Reviewed by: Scott Gross M. Ed.