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I'm indian, 26yrs married male, i have masterbate since last 2 yrs (twice in week), i dont have any other bad habits, my question is when i intercourse with my wife my pennis will be ejaculate the cum within 30 seconds and my pennis will be getting loose then and the size will be going down with 3inches. so that i cant satisfy my sex with my wife.
Please help me about how can i stabilise my stamina. and tell me whether i have any problem or want to do something. So please help me about how i satisfied myself and to my wife's sex. how can i enjoyed sex with my wife longer time. Thanks
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Answer:
by Poosha Darbha: (01/08/2006)
You have given an impression that you believe that masturbation or some other “bad” habit may have something to do with your present problem. If you thought so, please be assured that it is not the case. There are a number of theories about what causes premature ejaculation (what you described as ejaculating within 30 seconds) and number of options to overcome the problem. One such solution is outlined in a question I have answered earlier. Please visit the link http://www.sexualhealth.com/question.php?Action=read&question_id=2381 .
Please also remember that lasting longer alone does not bring sexual satisfaction. Talking only from the standpoint of sexual mechanics, sexual satisfaction can also come from stimulating the clitoris (with fingers or tongue or head of the penis) with the right pressure, speed and intensity.
A common situation in India is that many couples do not indulge in foreplay sufficient for a woman to reach a good level of sexual excitement. They (he?) often rush to intercourse and as a result, by the time the man ejaculates, the woman would be just aroused, but yet be far away from the level necessary to trigger orgasm. If a similar situation prevails in your case too, please learn the ways of pleasing each other mentally, emotionally and of course sexually so that you both achieve a real satisfaction through the intimacy of sex and soul.
Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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