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Question:
I came to know that the larger size of penis gives more pleasure to women please tell me to what extent it is true. Iam worried about I have 9cms long penis when errect and 3 inches thick would I be able to satiate my partner with full joy if not please suggest what should I do. Thanking you in anticipation

Answer:
by Larry Siegel:
(06/25/2004)
Hi and thanks for taking the time to write in. Yours is one of the concerns that affect men the most, partly because all images of the penis tend to be quite large, particularly in adult videos and other material. While it is true that some women do prefer a larger penis, most women don't have a preference for penis size. They do, however, have a preference for a man who is a good lover and knows how to pleasure a woman, both with and without his penis. Compared to the rest of the body, the penis is but one part with which to pleasure a woman. Similarly, penis-vagina intercourse is only one of many ways in which to make love. Like the old cliche goes: it's not the size, it's how you use it. Another thing to remember is that the average depth of a vagina is only about 4-5 inches. Different angles of penetration can be learned and used to maximize her pleasure. The first thing I would suggest is not to worry about your penis size and focus more on becoming a complete lover. That means using your hands, your mouth, and any other body part to their full potential in pleasuring a partner. Like anything else, sex is a skill that can be practiced and developed. There are countless women in the world who are quite satisafied with a partner who has a less-than-average size penis. As I said previously, the trick is in knowing how to use what you have. I would also suggest visiting a website called altpenis.com. It has a number of suggestions and some information on penis enlargement. I hope this has been of some value to you. Please feel free to write again if you have any further questions or concerns. Take care and be well. Lary Siegel

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