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Hello. I've recently found your website and thought I would ask a question. Here goes: About 6 months ago, I was in a mens restroom using one of the urinals and I was the only one there. I was using the first urinal near the door and there was no privacy wall there. Anyway, I hear this knock on the door and thought maybe some guy was wondering if it was a private restroom so I ignored it....I didn't realize it was a girl that worked there who was cleaning the restroom. Anyway, she walked in and saw my penis! She was shocked but stood there looking at it for a few seconds and she giggled and left. Well, I was so embarrassed. But recently, I have been fantasizing about recreating the situation. I think I am getting turned on by women laughing at my penis. I don't think it is tiny, but it's kinda small. I've noticed that sometimes I try and recreate that moment in real life. Why am I turned on by being humiliated?
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by Konstance McCaffree: ()
Chad,
I was struck by your assumption that the girl who giggled when she looked at you and saw your penis was doing it because she was was humiliating you for its size. As a female myself having first walked in on a male while urinating, I know that I reacted the same way that this young girl did. I was embarrassed for walking in on the guy. I don't even remember the size - I just remember thinking how awful of me to walk in on him.
I do think she probably felt the same way. Your focus, as is for most males, seems to be on size. That really isn't something women or girls think about much. It is a male thing.
To answer the rest of your question though, you probably got a sexual charge by the whole exhibition thing. There you were standing with the penis out, you were looked at and got a response. Wanting to recreate it is sort of a natural reaction. It felt good, gave you a charge, possibly a sexual charge, so now you'd like to have it happen again.
I do want to warn you, that there are laws against doing it in public. You can be arrested and given the label of sex offender if you try to get that same charge from doing it to some unsuspecting person. To do it to someone in your own home, and have a partner act out the surprise and fantasy with you would be fine though and it is certainly something people do.Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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