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Question:
Okay My name is Mudas And I have been having some problems.
First alot of people make fun of me when they find out I never had a guy go
down on me. I think its nasty having somebody's tong down their.
Plus I have been having White stuff come out of my vigina I guess it is discharge
my question is it smells weird I'm not pregnant and I dont have a disease or
anything I dont think. Even after I take a shower with soap and wash my vigina all good
It still smells weird and at the end of the day I have this cloudy white stuff in my panties
Please help me what is going on. And one more thing I heard everygirl has an essence
What is that.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and Answer my questions.
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Answer:
by Konstance McCaffree: ()
Mudas,
Thanks for a great question. I don't think you should worry about what other people think about oral sex and a guy going down on you. I think each of us has to decide what is comfortable for us, and many people do things they really don't want to do in sex because a partner wants it. This isn't mutual loving, caring and sharing. This is being pressured or in some cases forced.
Just because others say they like to do it doesn't mean they do. So from now on when someone tells you that you should like it, very confidently say that it isn't something you enjoy or want to engage in and what you do with someone is private and none of their business.
As far as the whitish discharge from your vagina, you probably don't have an infection (because it would burn and itch more and be yellow, green, brown or red).
As your internal reproductive and sexual organs develop the vagina begins to produce more moisture on the lining. That moisture often builds up enough that gravity pulls it from the vagina and it goes into your underwear. Most of us women have a normal vaginal discharge. It has a slight odor to it, our own personal odor, and can be different in amount at different times of your menstrual cycle. For example it often discharges more around ovulation time.
What you may be experiencing though is a condition sometimes called a vaginal infection, monilia, but it really isn't an infection. It is an overgrowth of the normal bacteria that your body makes to keep the vagina clean. This overgrowth is caused by douching with substances like Summer's Eve (unless you use the vinegar and water one) which cleans the normal bacteria out of the vagina and allows more of the other types of bacteria to grow. It usually looks like a thick whitish substance that is a little lumpy. If you also itch a little you might need to use a suppository called Monistat (brand name) that you can get at any drug store.
I would not assume that you need it though because you may just be experiencing a normal vaginal discharge. I would not continue to douch though because it doesn't allow the vagina to clean itself as it is supposed to.
Thanks for your question.Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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