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Hi, i am young teenager and overly worried about this..about a week ago my b/f and I were fooling around. We have never had sexual intercourse but we do have oral sex. I gave him head but he did NOT ejaculate..a few minutes after i had given him head, he quickly "re-adjusted" his penis and that's all..about 2 or 3 minutes after quickly "re-adjusting" himself, he fingered me, actually penetrating my vagina. After that i stradled him with my thong on, but he was naked and NOT wearing any protection..I have been stressing about this since it occured and have not gotton my period yet. Since i have only had my period for about a year i am very unregular and have missed a period in the past-I know it's due but I can't stop worrying about the chances of pregnancy-though after reading many of the questions on this topic, i am feeling a little better. I know the chances are slim but i am still SO SO worried and i am driving myself crazy..what are the chances? thankyou for your time

Answer:
by Megan Andelloux: (11/28/2005)
Oooh Honey....relax and breathe deep in and out. The chances are slim that you are pregnant, especially if he just touched his penis and didn't ejaculate or "cum". If there is no semen, there won't be a pregnancy. Sperm need to be able to swim, thus they need the semen cause that's what they swim in and if the semen is dried up, no pregnancy can happen. If he ejaculated on his hands and then fingered you, well then that CAN cause a pregnancy. As for straddling him with your underwear on and his off, again, as long as he didn't ejaculate or "cum" you are good to go. But in the future, to prevent yourself from worrying and crying, just throw a condom over him if his pants are going to be off and then you won't have to worry. Putting condoms on can be fun! Follow the directions and do it for him-he won't object to you touching his penis-that's why you are there! Good luck sweetie and thanks for writing in! Megan Andelloux

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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