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Hello! I am 22, married almost one year, having sex for about 4 years, have a 2 month old baby girl, and never had an orgasm. Please help!!!!
My daughter is 2 months old and ever since i had her i really don't have much of a sex drive, when i do i think that i am not relaxed enought to have an orgasm. This really bothers my husband and i - he has tried everything he can to make it happen but no luck- I think sometimes he touches my G-Spot, and when he does i don't really enjoy the feeling- i guess that also since the birth i am really tense during sex because i "think" that it is going to hurt but i know that it won't! I really want to be able to have great sex and an Orgasm! I hope you have some suggestions!
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Answer:
by Logan Levkoff: ()
Thank you for submitting your question. First, it is very common to lose some of your sex drive after giving birth (but it will come back)! And yes, orgasms are very mental – by this I mean that if you concentrate so much on having an orgasm, chances are your frustration will psych you out of actually having one. In terms of your sex play, if women have orgasms, most of them have clitoral orgasms and not G-spots orgasms – so do not despair. However, if you relax and simply enjoy the entire sexual experience (and don’t focus on the climax), you may begin to have increased pleasure. Just take it slow...and have fun!Reviewed by: Scott Gross M. Ed.
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