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I love to masturbate, but I am unable to get myself to come to a climax so I will be able to taste it on my fingers. Why is this happening and what can I do to correct this poblem?

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by Melissa BEE:
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Thank you for your question. When women are aroused, the glands that feed into the vagina ooze small drops of fluid. Some women claim to be able to ejaculate, (and it is believed the ejaculate comes from the Bartholins glands which lie besides the urethra) but this is the exception, rather than the norm. For most women, there is a small amount of ooze - from 5-10mls (about a teaspoon) and it is not always clear to distinguish this 'cum' from normal and artificial lubrication, in the same way as a man's clearly white ejaculate. I wonder that if you are not aware of any ooze, whether it is age related - you did not mention your age - (this factor can change over time) diet and hydration related (dehydration makes the body conserve fluid) or whether it is something just particular to you. Please feel free to ask for more information. Melissa BEE

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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