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Question:
I am a 26 yr old female, and my question pertains to the lack of sexual desire. I have seen many Q & A's in here about sexual desire but none of them describe me. I have NEVER really had one. I am newly married and do love my husband, but I have no desire to have sex. I often will come onto him so that he can "relieve" himself. Sex does not hurt or anything like that. I do not get "horney" as they say. The desire is just not there. Never has been, with any of my sex partners prior to my husband either. To me it sounds like I don't have sexual hormones, if that is even possible.

Answer:
by :
(05/13/2004)
There are numerous psychological and physical factors that may affect ones sexual desires. Some of the many psychological factors that may contribute to a hypoactive sexual desire disorder are poor interpersonal relationships, fear of unwanted pregnancy, stressful life events, low self-esteem, and past negative sexual teachings and/or experiences. Some common physical factors that can affect sexual desire include coping with chronic illness, sudden injury or illness, and use of certain medications. Hormonal levels have much less to do with sexual desire then most individuals realize. Testosterone is the steroid hormone that is associated with the male sex drive but it is also responsible for producing the female sex drive. In the female small amounts of testosterone and other related androgen hormones are produced by the ovaries and by the adrenal glands which sit on top of the kidneys. On your next visit to your gynecologist the issue of a lack of sexual desire should be raised. As your gynecologist will be able to conduct tests that can determine if the sexual desire problems you have been experiencing may be the result of an underlying medical condition.

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