Question:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now (1 year, 2 months, 9 days, to be exact). Being young, neither of us had tried sex before this relationship, although we both had masturbated. My girlfriend claims (and I think she would know) that she has never orgasmed, both when she is masturbating, and when we have sex.
We started having sex about 6 months ago, and we have no problem with motivation...she even enjoys herself. However, it's frustrating that I can't fully satisfy her. With her, she will get to a point during sex where she will begin to push me harder...I naturally push her harder back. However, after a while, she reaches a point where she claims that she isn't feeling anything anymore, and she is done. Her sexual desire is gone.
I don't think it's a problem with my size...some positions we can't do because I hurt her when I hit her back wall. However, I will admit lack of practice at sex. If you have any advice on how she can get herself to orgasm, or anything I can do, I would be very appreciative. I need your help....this lack of orgasm is really making me feel insufficient.
Sincerely,
Lacking
P.S. I don't know if this matters, but for us, we have two different types of sex we have. One is the all-out, give it to me, lust-filled sex. We also use sex as a tool for love, to be closer...during this, I will simply slide into her once, hold her close to me, and we will lie together and talk. Please, help me.
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