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hi I just resently had my first orgasm with a guy and it was great and the ones after that where too. I got this orgasm through oral sex though am still a virgin, my question is before i have an orgasm with him, i either have to be watching a porn tape or thinking about two couples making love (one fantersy in perticular) anyway, i was wondering if this was a problem and how i can get an orgasm without it. Also we have tried to really go all the way but it feels very uncomfortable and painful for me being a virgin and all and i was hoping there is something i could do to learn how to enjoy sex without the porn and without oral sex involved.
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by Gale Golden: (08/02/2005)
You are wondering if you can learn to have an orgasm without oral sex. Yes you can, but many women do not have orgasms just with vaginal containment of the penis alone. It is not abnormal. Having fantasies is also normal and may serve to heighten your sexual pleasure. You can get some good books on various ways to mastrubate to get an orgasm and share that with your partner. It will heighten his pleasure too and, after your orgasm, he can have his orgasm inside of you if you want that. You also said that intercourse hurts. It would be important to go to a gynecologist to examine you and help you find out why it hurts and fix it. Good for you and your pleasurable orgasms! Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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